When a husband has joined a Israelite hate group a wife’s only solution is submission and complete trust in God for your husband’s deliverance.
The goal of this article is to provide a solution for Christian wives whose husbands have veered off into Israelite hate groups. The solution is submission and complete trust in God for your husband’s deliverance. This article will show you how to do it.
Since the posting of the article Why I Can’t Join the Black Hebrew Israelites, I’ve received numerous emails and comments regarding the division some of these Israelite religions are causing in marriages. Some marriages are even facing divorce. Here’s what I’m hearing:
- Now that some husbands have woke up to the fact of Hebrew descent, they want to practice polygyny which is an obvious disruption to an already established monogamous relationship of several years.
- Wives have reported that their husbands have grown colder, meaner, and isolated ever since joining; and many camps teach the belittlement of women; saying that women are the downfall of man; and that women should basically be seen and not heard.
- Wives who don’t agree with the exclusion of white people, and the bondage of the Law taught by these groups are labeled as being “unequally yoked,” rebellious, “witches,” brainwashed, and “spirits of eve” by their husbands.
- Also, apart from married couples, mothers have voiced concern for their sons who’ve joined these cults saying that they’re beginning to hate Christianity and throw the Grace of God completely out the window.
- Overall, these women have tried to show their husbands and sons every scripture in the Bible. They’ve got their pastors to speak with them and, of course, prayed, but to no avail.
What can a woman do?
First of all, before we start, if there is consistent verbal and physical abuse, a wife should separate (1 Corinthians 7:15). Men doing such vile things to their wives are not born again, nor are they “men of God” (even if they claim to be the Most High’s chosen people).
However, if you’re verbally and physically abusing your husband and receiving such in return, then stop abusing your husband. To win your husband and gain favor with God, you must live righteously as we will see later on.
With that said, let’s see what needs to be done.
1. Accept the truth
Some wives have already done this, but for those who’ve haven’t: the first thing a mother or wife must do is understand that Israelite ancestry is true—black people really are the true Israelites.
If you don’t believe this one truth, you can’t really deal with your husband properly because you haven’t awakened to the truth yourself.
Your husband’s problem is that the truth has blown his mind, but he wasn’t grounded in Christ (perhaps not even born again) and now he’s been carried off into a false religion by deceived men (Ephesians 1:14). Israelite heritage isn’t a lie, but the rituals and beliefs of some of these groups are.
2. Understand why black men get caught up in religions like this
The main reason why black men get caught up in religions like this is because it gives them an identity. Israelite religions give black men their roots, their heritage, and their scriptures back, producing some sense of self-worth and strength.
It’s the same with other black religions like the Nation of Islam, and the Kemetic groups. Christianity doesn’t provide an origin story for the black man, instead, Christianity lies to black men.
Christianity was perverted by Europeans and used to keep black men enslaved. Christianity hid the real reason why black people are at the bottom of every society.
Christianity lied and told black men they were a cursed people, and to add insult to injury, Christianity lifted up an image of a white homosexual man and called him the son of God!Israelite religions tell black men the truth (in part) while Christianity is exposed to be a lie, so there’s no question why Black Hebrew Israelites oppose Christianity and join these religious groups.
PS: While I may speak negatively about Christianity, Jesus is my Lord and Savior and I am a follower of his word the Bible, because of that, he’s taught me to discern between the real Jesus and the man-made Jesus and religion called Christianity of today. Check out my studies and research on the origins of Christianity.
OK, so now that we know why your husbands are apart of these groups, we can talk about how to deal with it.
3. Don’t argue with him
First off, stop bombarding him with scriptures. Yes, this is the initial reaction we have when we see our loved ones in religious error, but after they’ve rejected clear scriptures, it’s time to let the Holy Spirit work.
What you have to understand is that your husbands are now under the influence of demons. They aren’t thinking logically anymore—demons are manipulating their minds. And you can’t fight demons in the flesh with “biblical interventions,” a sit-down with your local pastor, or arguing back and forth with them—these methods simply won’t work.
I feel like many wives have made the problem worse by arguing with their husbands. No man in a religion like this is going to change by his wife nagging him. All it will do is harden the man and he will begin to look at his wife as an adversary and that’s where talks of separation and divorce start happening, or worse physical and verbal abuse.
Wives, if you’ve done this, don’t get down on yourself, you were doing what you thought would work. Forgive yourselves, but don’t do it again. For future reference, never nag your husband about anything. Just pray—you’ll get better results.
4. Trust in the Spirit of God. Fight in the Spirit.
You can’t fight this in the flesh. The bible is clear: We wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against evil spirits (Eph 6:12). Evil spirits of error have your husband captive and the only way to free him is if the Holy Spirit grabs him. You can’t do it, but you can petition the process through fervent prayer. So keep praying. The word encourages you:
Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done (Phil 4:6 NLT)
The Lord hears his people when they call to him for help. He rescues them from all their troubles. (Psalms 34:17 NLT)You can pray for anything, and if you have faith, you will receive it (Matthew 21:22 NLT)
“In the same way, you wives must accept the authority of your husbands. Then, even if some refuse to obey the Good News, your godly lives will speak to them without any words. They will be won over by observing your pure and reverent lives.” (1 Peter 3:1-2 NLT)
This is a powerful scripture. It says that wives can win over their husbands by their godly lives. If you align your life with God, God can align your husband in the truth.
I’m not saying that you are not living godly (because I don’t know your life), but I know being in opposition with your husband, resisting him, refusing to go to meetings and arguing with him will be taken as a lack of submission—and this is all the enemy will need to convince him he should divorce you.
Instead, this is what you can do: Tell him,
I don’t agree with what you believe, but I will no longer fight you on this.
Submit to his leadership and become the best wife you can be to him. Obey him to the point of sin. That is, don’t obey him if he asks you to sin. Become a very meek and silent wife (if not already); and all while praying for his deliverance. Then he can’t say, my wife is nagging me and fighting with me; and you can’t be accused of being a jezebel or a witch.
As you fervently pray, you could ask God something like this:
Lord, I can’t deliver him from these demons of deception, but YOU can. I give this to you … Free my husband’s mind, show him the truth and strengthen me to stay faithful to you and your truth …”
Have other concerned family and friends join in prayer for him, but do it privately. Don’t allow them to approach him with biblical interventions and what not, just leave him alone, and pray for him privately.
But when you pray, go away by yourself, shut the door behind you, and pray to your Father in private. Then your Father, who sees everything, will reward you (Matt 6:6 NLT).
Now, this is what I call “fighting in the Spirit.” What you’ve done is acknowledged your weakness to change your husband, and through humility before the Lord, God will move on your behalf. And that’s all God needs:
- submission and trust in him
- and submission to your husband
If you’re doing everything right in the sight of God, why wouldn’t God answer your prayer, especially one of salvation for your husband’s soul? The word says:
And we are confident that he hears us whenever we ask for anything that pleases him. And since we know he hears us when we make our requests, we also know that he will give us what we ask for (1 John 5:14-15 NLT)
But you gotta keep praying and believing—never losing hope:
Pray in the Spirit at all times and on every occasion. Stay alert and be persistent in your prayers for all believers everywhere. (Eph 6:18 NLT) Never stop praying (1 Thess 5:17 NLT)And so I tell you, keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you (Luke 11:9 NLT)
The goal is your complete belief that God can change your husbands and NOT by your own efforts.
Now, there is no guarantee that your husband will be delivered from this because he’s the one that has to make the decision, but at least God will remove the veil of deception off of his mind to see the error and show him the truth.
Prayer changes things and it’s the most powerful solution to this problem. The goal is your complete belief that God can change your husbands and NOT by your own efforts.
Don’t rely on yourself, rely on God.