In this sermon, we discuss the signs of adultery, what to do about infidelity, and how to keep your wife from cheating.

“Let all who are simple come to my house!” To those who have no sense she says, “Stolen water is sweet; food eaten in secret is delicious!” (Proverbs 9:16-17)

How women cheat and the signs

  • Business trips
  • Long office hours
  • Girls night out
  • Running errands for 2-3 hours
  • Male friends
  • She hides her phone
  • Change in behavioral patterns
  • Catching her in lies

Should you divorce a woman who committed adultery?

Biblically, you can, but you can’t remarry without it being adultery. You can end an engagement if you suspect fornication but adultery is what happens after the marriage. You have a few options:

  • Forgive and reconcile
  • Separate, heal, and reunite
  • Divorce and remain single
  • Get a new wife and limit your attention to the adulteress
  • Allow her to leave and you can remarry under personal contract

How to keep your wife from cheating

You can’t control a woman only her avenues through which she might cheat.

  • Don’t allow your wife to have social media accounts unless for business marketing
  • Don’t allow her to work closely with other men
  • She should know you have full access to her phone, accounts, personal belongings
  • Cut off her whorish friends
  • No guy friends
  • Reject “girls night out” and trips overseas without you
  • Be masculine, charismatic and strong
  • Make God and your pursuits the center of your world, not her 
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